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		<title>Vision for the new Cycle</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Notes to self: Practice BEing in the NOW. Make BEing an embodiment of love, evolutionary consciousness and self mastery your priority. BE the fullest version of Self you can be. BE an embodiment and loving protector of freedom, yours and other&#8217;s. Master your ego and mind, teach them to serve Self and Source/Life/the Divine. BE better at balancing internal contrasts (work/rest, action/receptivity, yin/yang, etc.) and expand your wellbeing, resilience and&#8230;</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Notes to self:</em></p>
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<li><em>Practice BEing in the NOW.</em></li>
<li><em>Make BEing an embodiment of love, evolutionary consciousness and self mastery your priority.</em></li>
<li><em>BE the fullest version of Self you can be.</em></li>
<li><em>BE an embodiment and loving protector of freedom, yours and other&#8217;s.</em></li>
<li><em>Master your ego and mind, teach them to serve Self and Source/Life/the Divine.</em></li>
<li><em>BE better at balancing internal contrasts (work/rest, action/receptivity, yin/yang, etc.) and expand your wellbeing, resilience and joy.</em></li>
<li><em>Express more of your honest and heartfelt love, gratitude and appreciation to those around you. It is still too rare in our world and we all can do better.</em></li>
<li><em>Live from your Soul&#8217;s vision, not from current circumstances or trending narratives.</em></li>
<li><em>Expect life to evolve and work out in ways that best serve your growth and expansion.</em></li>
<li><em>Trust the timing of your life&#8217;s unfolding and keep showing up best you can while practicing patience.</em></li>
<li><em>Learn to guard and preserve your energy with discernment, your balance and energetic sovereignty are more important than adhering to social scripts or traditions.</em></li>
<li><em>Move into new adventures, opportunities, paths and challenges with your ALL.</em></li>
<li><em>Focus on your sphere of influence, on who you can BE, what you can do or co-create in service of higher consciousness.</em></li>
<li><em>Witness everything with zero point consciousness and detachment, allowing yourself to know the observed from all perspectives without treating any one perspective preferentially.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></em></li>
<li><em>Reject the baits of dualistic narratives, divisive ideas and ideologies, and anything else that feeds ego-trips on superiority.</em></li>
<li><em>Know your ego&#8217;s triggers and disarm them by healing the underlying pain, shame or distorted beliefs.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></em></li>
<li><em>Keep releasing attachments to identity, self and narratives.</em></li>
<li><em>Listen deeply to others, beyond the opinions and identifications they express.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></em></li>
<li><em>Discern their underlying motivations, woundings, patterns and limitations and meet them with kindness, compassion and love as much as you possibly can.</em></li>
<li><em>Be selective in the choice of the company you keep, surrounding yourself with those who are striving for learning, growth, and expansion of consciousness while integrating the ego into a position of service.</em></li>
<li><em>Be mindful and discerning in engaging with people who are ego-driven, meeting them from love and compassion. Give yourself permission to decline engagements whenever they could be detrimental to your wellbeing and vibration.</em></li>
<li><em>Prioritize, cultivate, balance and nurture your chosen relationships with an abundance of love and energy.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></em></li>
<li><em>Be an ambassador of honesty, compassion and kindness to all you encounter.</em></li>
<li><em>BE kind to yourself, taking exceptionally good care of your physical, emotional, mental and spiritual body in all the ways they need to be flexible, adaptive, resilient, strong and open to Self-leadership.</em></li>
<li><em>Listen to guidance, intuition and symbols which meet your awareness every day.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></em></li>
<li><em>Honor the sacredness of life, remember to begin with yours and the lives of loved ones.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></em></li>
<li><em>Keep serving life &#8211; always and in all ways you are called to.</em></li>
<li><em>Keep sharing your gifts, insights, wisdom and love with generosity of heart and soul.</em></li>
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<h6>Photography:<span class="Apple-converted-space">  </span>@mjrodriguez7 by David Dunan</h6>
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		<title>Dance to Self</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Oct 2018 12:03:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Listen to the silence between words, The silence that envelops soundThis is where our hearts are one, The infinite, diverse and vast One. Hear the song of creative potentialLet it move you, sing through youUnite us in a dance to its driving rhythms Taking us where life is eternally made and remade.  Shed your skins of stories and grievancesRelease the conditioning and beliefs of knowing it all.Find your curiosity, awe and innocence Open yourself&#8230;</p>
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<blockquote class="wp-block-quote"><p><em>Listen to the silence between words, </em><br/><em>The silence that envelops sound</em><br/><em>This is where our hearts are one, </em><br/><em>The infinite, diverse and vast One.</em><br/><br/><br/><em>Hear the song of creative potential</em><br/><em>Let it move you, sing through you</em><br/><em>Unite us in a dance to its driving rhythms </em><br/><em>Taking us where life is eternally made and remade. </em><br/><br/><br/><em>Shed your skins of stories and grievances</em><br/><em>Release the conditioning and beliefs of knowing it all.</em><br/><em>Find your curiosity, awe and innocence </em><br/><em>Open yourself to the magic of life.</em><br/><br/><br/><em>Die to your small artificial self, </em><br/><em>Leave your grasping and posturing,</em><br/><em>Be reborn by the Self into a new state of being</em><br/><em>Loving, creating and flowing as One.</em><br/></p></blockquote>



<h6>Photography: Tao Ye &amp; Duan Ni in TAO Dance Theater’s ‘2’ by Matthew George Johnson<br/></h6>
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		<title>Notes to Self &#8211; Choose Someone</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Oct 2018 14:33:20 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>With the upcoming Venus retrograde we are headed into our underworld to reassess our relationships as well as who and what we value in our life. What better time to write down the lessons learned in recent experiences with men as a note to self on who to choose? This is a highly personal condensed list yet I hope it serves you as an inspiration for your own contemplations on preferences and&#8230;</p>
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<p>With the upcoming Venus retrograde we are headed into our underworld to reassess our relationships as well as who and what we value in our life. What better time to write down the lessons learned in recent experiences with men as a <em>note to self</em> on who to choose? This is a highly personal condensed list yet I hope it serves you as an inspiration for your own contemplations on preferences and what nourishes or drains you in intimate relationships.</p>



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<ul><li>choose someone who calls all of gaia his home and longs to explore as much of her beauty and human expressions, cultures, life styles, architecture, art and life’s dance as he can.</li></ul>



<ul><li>choose someone who brings joy, lightness and love to life as well as intelligence, equanimity, creativity and a heart that loves adventure and diversity.</li></ul>



<ul><li>choose someone who has mastered practices of self reflection and meta perception of self as well as behavioral and thought patterns.</li></ul>



<ul><li>choose someone you have the capacity to hold space for in the way they need it and who chooses to lean into it and grow.</li></ul>



<ul><li>choose someone whose shadows play well with you, whose darkness cannot douse your love and joy with persistence or keep triggering you past the window of tolerance.</li></ul>



<ul><li>choose someone who remembers you are not the abuser of his past when you gently point it out to his triggered self, someone who has a capability of effectively self soothing and calming his nervous system when triggered.</li></ul>



<ul><li>choose someone who can sense, ask and receive support and help when he needs it or recognize the need when made aware of it.</li></ul>



<ul><li>choose someone who loves himself and does not justify or rationalize patterns of unlove towards his heart, soul and body but works on deepening his self love.</li></ul>



<ul><li>choose someone who would not think of outsourcing emotional labor, mood management and his mental, physical and spiritual wellbeing to anyone but himself.</li></ul>



<ul><li>choose someone who sees himself as your equal and works effectively on releasing any beliefs and thoughts of being less than or not good enough.</li></ul>



<ul><li>choose someone who supports you in stretching and becoming a more balanced and whole you.</li></ul>



<ul><li>choose one who can challenge you and make you own your bullshit and receive the same gift of honesty and reflection.</li></ul>



<ul><li>choose someone who has seen you in your darkest and can be with you lovingly without allowing your darkness to infringe on their wellbeing.</li></ul>



<ul><li>choose someone who with compassion and discernment holds space as you remind your inner child they are not the one who hurt or abandoned you but one come to love you and walk by your side.</li></ul>



<ul><li>choose someone who teaches you to love yourself fiercely and open your heart through all the fears and impulsive constrictions by their own example and love. </li></ul>



<ul><li>choose someone with erotic intelligence who is willing and playfully skilled at exploring vast pleasures to be elicited from our amazing bodies, spirits and hearts with you.</li></ul>



<ul><li>choose someone who meets you in your passions, your fragility, your playfulness, your wisdom, your silliness, your love, your kindness, your sacredness, your radiance&#8230; your youness.</li></ul>



<ul><li>choose someone you could easily live without but choose to be with because they evoke a unique melody from your heart which harmonizes enchantingly with his.</li></ul>



<ul><li>choose someone whose eyes dance with sparks of the unknown and pull you into a blissful surrender to the eternal dance of lover and beloved.</li></ul>



<h6>Photograph by Erik Almås</h6>
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