When you take time to meditate on this you might arrive at the knowing that humans are in no need for formal, static rules of engagement or rituals, whose roots and meanings are “lost” on us or have been redressed prettily to fabricate our consent to a dark reality while pretending to be all light and “normal”. 

We are beings capable of far more than we know or give ourselves credit for in the endless stream of gaslighting and conditioning we have mistaken for reality itself.

I am clear in my intention not to allow myself to be enslaved by the matrix nor do I intend to sleep. Therefore I keep choosing conscious experimental processes which have been great tools empowering me to see, know and deprogram cult and conventional programming. 

I do not expect others to do as I do as I know this to be my path not theirs. 

Yet I have faith those with “eyes to see, ears to hear” will understand or be led by their response (emotive, mental, physical) to explore and find treasures of insights and knowing along that journey. And those who cannot yet see beyond the conditioning and the predator they identify with as their mind will be “served” by having something to spin into narratives of negativity and feed their shadow and other entities as their sleep remains untouched.

In 2019 my focus shall lie in further dismantling illusions by actively stepping out of more contracts and rituals, which no longer have the value and meaning to me we are conditioned to share, as consciousness and self work have ripped some veils to allow for their underlying code to show its undesirability. 

I will keep retraining my mind to drop its two fundamental addictions to 

1. eating up or creating negativity and 
2. knowledge and reason as ultimate and sole reality. 

Teaching my mind to be a good servant and tool for consciousness, my soul and heart as well as a loving caretaker of my body and health.

It entails no longer celebrating birthdays and finding other ways in order to express my appreciation and gratitude for another’s existence without binding us to time and other limiting narratives of the prescribed dream.

And while coming from love and compassion I am practicing being radically honest and authentic in my engagements instead of allowing prescribed scripts and ideas of who and how I should be to bar real connection and aware co-creation with another. 

As I keep experimenting and learning more things will be revealed and fall by the wayside as the veils clouding the mind are falling and this dance of life that is existence becomes more free and joyous as life and consciousness celebrate union.

Illustration by Julia Suits, The New Yorker Cartoonist & author of The Extraordinary Catalog of Peculiar Inventions

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Expand in awareness and self-reflection, Integrating the parts that fear love or don’t want to give it, illuminate the negativity held in my subconscious and gently release its beliefs, patterns and existence, lower defences that outlived their usefulness and cultivate trust.

Service to Life

Showing up to serve Life in every way I am called for in the moment. Honing my skills of listening to guidance and intuition, learning about the nature of existence and universal laws, unlearning untruths and manipulative conditionings, creating more moments of stillness, receptivity, sound healing, reflection, dance, laughter and other ways of enlivening communion with Source in order to be of better service.

Zero-point Consciousness 

Perceiving, living and acting from the knowing that all things appearing dual are different degrees of the same. Creating unity in perception and emotional intelligence.

Creative Potentiality 

Connecting more regularly and anchoring in the creative potentiality of Source and the joy, love and bliss at the core of being.

Equanimity 

Retraining my nervous system to default to a state of “rest and digest”, cultivating and anchoring myself into the emotional and mental state of infinite peaceful, blissful and spacious awareness. 

Presence  

Living my life embodied, one with my body instead of living in my head. Honoring the intrinsic oneness of all my bodies and being with every breath.

Edge Play 

Relating with others from the edges of my subtle anatomy while keeping my being free from electromagnetic entanglements with others and in my soul’s sacred wholeness.

Disengaging

Remembering I do not have to engage with everybody or give my attention to someone or something all the time.That is not me disregarding them but honoring my boundaries, energy and truth.  Especially if it feels unaligned or exhaustive to me. 

Investing in Visions

Keep prioritizing my goals, wellbeing, needs and wants to helping others. Changing the previously unhelpful order of these to create a better balance.

Foundations

Keep rebuilding the foundation and structures of my being and life from the inside out. Bringing the inner into material form and being receptive for co-creators.

Asking for Help

Releasing the notion that I have to do everything on my own and welcoming back the joy of co-creating.

Photography: Fantasma by Kent Andreasen

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